My grandmother raised me and has Parkinson's and every time I see her she is smaller and frailer and I want to stop visiting but cannot live with myself if I do.
More people experience this than they realize.
Love sometimes asks us to witness what we cannot bear to see, trapping us between presence and self-preservation.
“Where Are You with Anticipatory grief — losing someone before they die?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.