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Scenario

Why devastating loss sometimes brings unexpected relief

My house burned down in the wildfire and I lost everything, but for the first time in years I feel free, and I hate myself for feeling grateful when my neighbors are still devastated.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Destruction can paradoxically liberate you from accumulated burdens you did not realize you were carrying, creating guilt about finding freedom in shared tragedy.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Post-traumatic growth — what can grow in the soil of loss?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.