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Scenario

When You and Your Partner Fall for the Same Person

My husband and I both fell in love with the same person and now they have to choose between us, which feels like it's destroying everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parallel desire for the same beloved transforms partners into competitors, threatening the foundation they built together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Polyamory & Non-Monogamy?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.