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When You Keep Having the Same Fight in Your Relationship

My husband and I fight about the same things over and over and I feel like we're stuck in some kind of loop we can't break out of.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The surface conflict becomes a stage where deeper unmet needs perform their frustration without ever naming what they actually want.

Ideas that help explain it
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