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Scenario

How to stop relitigating past conflicts in your marriage

My husband and I said we forgave each other after therapy but we both still keep bringing up old fights like we're collecting evidence for some future trial.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Forgiveness spoken aloud wars against the scorekeeping heart that refuses to delete its records.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Repair after conflict?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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