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Scenario

When improvement becomes indistinguishable from control

My husband criticizes everything I do but says it's because he wants me to be my best self, and I can't tell anymore if he's helping or hurting me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love's desire to elevate is being used as cover for the need to dominate.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.