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When improvement becomes indistinguishable from control

My husband criticizes everything I do but says it's because he wants me to be my best self, and I can't tell anymore if he's helping or hurting me.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love's desire to elevate is being used as cover for the need to dominate.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.