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Scenario

How to handle Ubuntu grief when in-laws assign blame

My husband died in an accident and his family blames me for not preventing it, but Ubuntu grief requires me to maintain relationships with people who hurt me daily.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Communal mourning is being poisoned by misplaced anger that prevents collective healing and isolates those who need support most.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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