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When illness changes physical capacity and healthy partners feel guilty about unmet needs

My husband had a stroke six months ago and I miss being held but feel selfish for wanting physical comfort when he is struggling so much.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Caregiving can create a false hierarchy where the well person's needs for connection become morally suspect.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The aging body in love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.