My husband has gained a lot of weight since his depression started and I love him but I am not attracted to him anymore and I hate myself for caring about that.
More people experience this than they realize.
Natural human responses to physical change are creating shame about the complexity of embodied love.
“Where Are You with Metta — Buddhist loving-kindness?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.