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Scenario

How to navigate attraction changes in long-term relationships

My husband has gained sixty pounds in the last two years and I feel terrible about it but I am not physically attracted to him anymore and I hate myself for being so shallow.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The body changes but desire often does not, creating a cruel gap between love and longing.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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