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When one partner refuses help but demands change

My husband refuses to go to therapy with me but expects me to work through our problems alone, then gets upset when I can't fix things fast enough.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The burden of emotional labor is being placed entirely on the person asking for support.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and justice — can love be fair??”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.