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Scenario

When your partner makes unilateral decisions about shared futures

My husband scheduled a vasectomy without discussing it with me first and I only found out when I saw the appointment confirmation on his phone.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Autonomy and partnership exist in constant tension, and someone just chose their side.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and power dynamics?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.