My husband wants to move back to his hometown where all his family lives but I finally have friends and a life here and I am afraid if we move I will disappear again.
More people experience this than they realize.
The pull of origins can threaten the self that was built in exile, forcing a choice between belonging and becoming.
“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.