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Scenario

How to maintain your identity when your spouse wants to relocate near family

My husband wants to move back to his hometown where all his family lives but I finally have friends and a life here and I am afraid if we move I will disappear again.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pull of origins can threaten the self that was built in exile, forcing a choice between belonging and becoming.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Marriage as Institution and Lived Experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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