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Scenario

How to navigate grief rituals when you're the outsider spouse

My Jewish husband wants to sit shiva for his father but I don't understand any of it and feel like an outsider watching him disappear into rituals that exclude me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Witnessing intimate cultural practices can intensify the isolation of those who don't share the framework for meaning-making.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief rituals across cultures — what they accomplish?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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