Periagoge
Scenario

When Cultural Inclusion Feels Like Benevolent Erasure

My Latina girlfriend's family always includes me in everything but never asks about my preferences, and I do not know if I am being embraced or erased.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-intentioned cultural hospitality can overwhelm individual autonomy in ways that feel both loving and suffocating.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love Languages Across Cultures?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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