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How to stop obsessing over why your relationship failed

My long-distance relationship ended when my partner moved back to their ex and I keep replaying every conversation wondering what I could have done differently.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mind creates elaborate narratives of personal failure to maintain the illusion that love can be controlled through perfect behavior.

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“Where Are You with Love After Loss — Loving Again?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.