Periagoge
Scenario

When your loss doesn't count as real grief to others

My miscarriage was at six weeks and people keep saying it wasn't 'really' a baby yet but I had already started talking to them and picking out names.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The social hierarchy of legitimate loss can compound private mourning with public invalidation.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The stages of grief — examined and critiqued?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.