My mom always said my dad was lucky to have her because she was out of his league, and I realize I have spent my entire dating life either feeling superior to partners or desperately trying to prove I am worthy of them.
More people experience this than they realize.
You learned that love is a hierarchy where someone is always settling.
“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.