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Scenario

When loving someone feels like emotional labor

My mother has been calling me selfish and ungrateful for moving across the country, and I keep trying to love her through it but I am exhausted from always being the one who forgives.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are confusing unconditional love with unconditional tolerance of harm.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Agape — unconditional love across traditions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.