My mother has been gone for three years and I still set out water for her every morning but my husband says it's becoming unhealthy and I should stop.
More people experience this than they realize.
The boundary between devotion and attachment blurs when love for the departed disturbs the peace of the living.
“Where Are You with Hindu grief practices — antyesti and shraddha?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.