My mother-in-law criticizes how I raise my children and my spouse says that is just how she is but I am starting to dread family gatherings and feel unsupported.
More people experience this than they realize.
Family harmony fractures when loyalty is divided and one person's normal becomes another's emotional assault.
“Where Are You with Buddhist Brahmaviharas in Relationship?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.