My mother-in-law tried so hard to connect with me over the years and I kept her at arm's length because of old hurts, and now she has Alzheimer's and it's too late.
More people experience this than they realize.
The protective mechanisms that shield us from repeated hurt can also block us from receiving genuine attempts at love and connection.
“Where Are You with Grief and regret — what we wish we'd said?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.