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Scenario

When past wounds prevent future intimacy

My mother-in-law tried so hard to connect with me over the years and I kept her at arm's length because of old hurts, and now she has Alzheimer's and it's too late.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The protective mechanisms that shield us from repeated hurt can also block us from receiving genuine attempts at love and connection.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Grief and regret — what we wish we'd said?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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