My mother keeps giving my sister money for her children while I struggle to pay for my own kids' school fees because she thinks I should handle things myself since I have a husband.
More people experience this than they realize.
The expectation of collective responsibility within Ubuntu can create painful inequities when resources and support are not distributed according to actual need.
“Where Are You with African Ubuntu Love and Kinship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.