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Scenario

When saying no feels like being a bad person

My neighbor keeps asking me to watch her kids for free while she goes to the casino and I say yes every time even though it is affecting my own children's bedtime routine and my marriage.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your identity as a good person has become dependent on never disappointing anyone, even when helping hurts those you love most.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Codependency?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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