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Scenario

How Violent Parental Fights Create Emotional Shutdown in Conflict

My parents had screaming matches that ended with thrown dishes and I promised myself I would never be like that, but my partner says I shut down so completely during conflict that they feel like they are arguing with a wall.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You learned that engagement leads to destruction, so you chose disappearance.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Your Parents' Relationship and How It Shaped Yours?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.