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How to navigate mismatched libidos in long-term love

My partner and I have completely different sex drives and I feel like we are always negotiating instead of just wanting each other naturally.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Desire cannot be bargained into alignment, leaving couples to navigate the tender space between need and accommodation.

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