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Scenario

How to recognize when you're unconsciously punishing your partner for past infidelity

My partner cheated and I decided to stay but now I realize I'm punishing them in small cruel ways every day and I don't know how to stop.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Forgiveness declared but not felt becomes a breeding ground for passive cruelty.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Infidelity — all perspectives?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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