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How to recognize when you're unconsciously punishing your partner for past infidelity

My partner cheated and I decided to stay but now I realize I'm punishing them in small cruel ways every day and I don't know how to stop.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Forgiveness declared but not felt becomes a breeding ground for passive cruelty.

Ideas that help explain it
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“Where Are You with Infidelity — all perspectives?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.