LibraryScenariosWhen physical attraction changes in long-term relationships
Scenario

When physical attraction changes in long-term relationships

My partner has gained weight since we got together and I feel terrible about it but I am less physically attracted to them and do not know what to do.

Mira
Online
The coach is replying

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love asks us to distinguish between the temporary fluctuations of desire and the deeper currents of commitment.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pleasure and the Body in Love?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.