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Why commitment can trigger fear even in good relationships

My partner of eight years proposed last month and I said yes but I've been having panic attacks about forever because what if we change.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The promise of permanence confronts the reality that both love and identity exist in constant flux.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with What love ultimately is — the examined final question?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.