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When your long-term partner loses sexual attraction

My partner of eight years told me they are not sure they are sexually attracted to me anymore and I do not know if this is something that can be rebuilt.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The slow fade of desire in long partnership confronts us with the mystery of what sustains physical love over time.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attraction — the science and the mystery?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.