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When your partner falls out of love but wants to try

My partner of five years told me he loves me but is not in love with me anymore and wants to try to work on it but I do not know if you can resurrect something that has died.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The difference between loving and being in love points to mysteries about desire that effort alone cannot solve.

Ideas that help explain it
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“Where Are You with Long-term partnership — sustaining love over time?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.