My partner of ten years doesn't want to get married and I'm realizing I do but I'm afraid asking for what I want will end everything.
More people experience this than they realize.
You are trapped between the fear of asking and the slow poison of not asking, both of which threaten the relationship you're trying to protect.
“Where Are You with Integration — not getting over but getting with?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.