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When partners assign different meanings to commitment

My partner of ten years doesn't want to get married because they say it's just a piece of paper but it matters to me and I feel like they don't understand how rejected that makes me feel.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Symbolic significance and practical reality diverge, creating a values conflict disguised as a procedural disagreement.

Ideas that help explain it
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