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Scenario

When Your Partner Says Surveillance Is Love

My partner reads my texts over my shoulder and goes through my phone and says it is because they love me and I am starting to feel crazy.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love distorted becomes control, and the heart learns to doubt its own need for privacy and selfhood.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Autonomy and Togetherness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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