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When Your Partner Says Surveillance Is Love

My partner reads my texts over my shoulder and goes through my phone and says it is because they love me and I am starting to feel crazy.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love distorted becomes control, and the heart learns to doubt its own need for privacy and selfhood.

Ideas that help explain it
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If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.