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Scenario

Why your partner brings their ex into your relationship

My partner triangulates me with his ex constantly and when I object he says I'm being insecure and controlling.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Creating jealousy and competition serves to keep you fighting for their attention rather than questioning their behavior.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Narcissistic partners?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.