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When Your Partner Wants More Structure in Your Anarchist Relationship

My partner wants to add structure and rules to our previously anarchist relationship style, and I feel like they're trying to control something that was beautifully free.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The request for boundaries can feel like the death of spontaneous love rather than its protection.

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