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When Your Partner Wants to Move in But You're Afraid of Losing Yourself

My partner wants us to move in together after eight months and I love them but I keep finding reasons to delay because I am terrified of losing myself again like I did in my last relationship.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart knows both its longing for union and its need for sovereignty, and fears one will devour the other.

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