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Scenario

When Your Partner Wants to Move in But You're Afraid of Losing Yourself

My partner wants us to move in together after eight months and I love them but I keep finding reasons to delay because I am terrified of losing myself again like I did in my last relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The heart knows both its longing for union and its need for sovereignty, and fears one will devour the other.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Autonomy and Togetherness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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