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When moving in together feels like giving up autonomy

My partner wants us to move in together but my apartment is rent controlled and tiny and his place is beautiful but in his name and I feel like I am losing my independence

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The transition from I to we requires grieving the self we were when we were only accountable to ourselves.

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