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When partners disagree about combining finances

My partner wants us to share all our money in one account but I want to keep some financial independence and he says that means I don't trust him

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Financial merger becomes test of devotion when autonomy is mistaken for mistrust and independence for preparation to leave.

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