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Scenario

When intrusive thoughts make you question if assault was infidelity

My partner was sexually assaulted by someone they knew and I keep having intrusive thoughts about whether it counts as cheating even though I know that is terrible.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Trauma has scrambled your ability to distinguish between betrayal and victimization, creating shame about thoughts you cannot control.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Affairs, Betrayal, and Trust Broken?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.