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When your partner's abandonment fears become self-fulfilling

My partner's father abandoned them when they were five and they constantly assume I'm going to leave and their anxiety is making me want to actually leave.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Fear of loss can create the very rejection it seeks to prevent.

Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Love and trauma — loving someone with a difficult past?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.