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Scenario

When someone trusts you with their life but not their choices

My sister asked me to be her emergency contact and power of attorney but she makes consistently destructive choices and I am scared of being responsible for decisions she might hate me for.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You are being asked to love someone by potentially overruling their autonomy in their darkest moments.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Ubuntu love — the communal dimension?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.