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When the manner of death conflicts with ceremonial traditions

My sister died by suicide and our elders say she cannot have the full burial honors because of how she died, and I am torn between respecting tradition and honoring her memory.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Some deaths challenge the moral framework that gives traditional rituals their meaning.

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“Where Are You with African grief traditions — communal mourning?”

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