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Why some bereaved cannot stop preparing for the dead

My sister died three years ago and I still set a place for her at family dinners because admitting she is not coming feels impossible.

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More people experience this than they realize.

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Ritual preparation maintains the fantasy that death is temporary and reversible.

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