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Scenario

When Someone Thanks You for Support You're Not Sure You Actually Gave

My sister has been clean for ninety days and keeps thanking me for not giving up on her but honestly there were times I did give up and I feel like a fraud.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Love is not constant, and the mythology of unwavering support can make us feel guilty for our own humanity.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Loving Someone with Addiction?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.