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Scenario

When your child saves things for someone who died

My six-year-old keeps hiding food in his backpack saying he needs to save it for his mom when she comes back.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Hoarding behaviors reveal a child's inability to accept the finality of death, as preparation for return becomes a defense against reality.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and grief — supporting young people?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.