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How searching for answers can deepen wounds

My son died by suicide last month and I keep going through his browser history and text messages looking for signs I missed and it's making everything worse.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The mind's demand for causation cannot always metabolize the mystery of another's pain.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Death of a loved one — the immediate experience?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.