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When your child hoards belongings of the deceased

My son started hoarding his dead sister's toys and won't let me wash them even though they smell.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A child's desperate preservation of physical remnants conflicts with practical needs, making cleanliness feel like betrayal.

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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Children and grief — supporting young people?”

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.