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Scenario

How self-punishment manifests in grief

My teenage daughter died eight years ago and I just realized I have been unconsciously punishing myself by never buying anything beautiful for our house.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Surviving children's deaths can feel like a crime requiring ongoing penance.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with How grief changes over years and decades?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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