Periagoge
Scenario

When trying to be the perfect parent erases yourself

My teenage daughter told me she hates me yesterday and I felt relief instead of hurt because I have been trying so hard to be the perfect mother that I forgot who I am.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The desire to be loved has consumed the person who might actually be lovable.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Desire and its changes over time?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.